Any time a term receives a footnote in one of my newsletters, I also put it here! Stay relevant, my friends.
A-Z
ASMR: Video or audio content meant to soothe with close-to-the-mic noises. Think spsssspsss 1
Ate: Did well 1
Baby girl: Another way of saying “soft boy,” an endearing term for male celebrities 1
Bangers: Something catchy and exciting 1
Beige flag: Not a red flag, but not a green flag 1
Beta: Weak 1
BookTok: An unofficial term for the algorithm on TikTok that targets book lovers 1
Bop: A girl who just posts selfies 1
Brainrot: Unintelligence from being on the internet for too long 1
Canon: Something considered by the fandom as confirmed, like a couple who actually ends up together in the book 1, 2
Cap: Not true 1
Chekhov’s Gun: A plot device where every element introduced to the story is purposeful and relevant later on 1
Copypasta: Text or images copied from one person to the next, often resulting in diminished quality or diluted messaging 1
Deepfake: Realistic computer generated images or videos, often of celebrities or politicians 1
Deinfluencing: The process of undoing the influence of social media product marketing 1
DM: Direct message 1
Edits: Fan-made videos, usually spliced together quickly with clips from the show 1
EGOT: The winner of an Emmy, Grammy, Oscar, and Tony 1
Fanficore: Reminiscent of a fanfiction aesthetic 1
Fan service: Appealing to the fans, often by bringing back beloved characters or locations 1
Fanum tax: Stealing 1
Fics: Short for “fanfiction” 1
FNAF: Acronym for Five Nights at Freddy’s 1
FOMO: Fear of Missing Out 1
FYP: For You Page, recommended content tailored to you on social media platforms 1
Gallery post: Shareable content database in the Sims 1
Gen Z shake: Picking up your phone at the start of filming, which gives it a shaky effect 1
Golden Globes: Film and television awards 1
Gossip sesh: Gossip session. Synonym for “spilling the tea.” 1
Gyat: Booty 1
Hard-launch: officially announce something, most commonly relationships 1
Hot girl walk: A trend that encourages people to go on walks 1
IMO: In my opinion 1
IRL: In real life, as opposed to online 1
Idk: I don’t know 1
Jk: Just kiddinggg 1
Journo Twitter: An unofficial term for the algorithm on Twitter that targets journalists 1
Lol: Laugh out loud 1
“Messy Girl” aesthetic: A casually cool, “I-just-rolled-out-of-bed-and-still-look-better-than-you” way of presenting oneself 1
Meme fest: When the meme goes viral, inspiring more memes 1
Meta: Instagram and Facebook’s parent company
#MeToo: A movement encouraging survivors to come forward with the truth about their sexual abusers following revelations about Harvey Weinstein. 1
Mogging: Looking better than someone 1
Mewing: Trying to look good 1
Momstagram: An unofficial term for the algorithm on Instagram that targets moms 1
Negative aura: Not cool 1
NGL: Not gonna lie 1
Nepo baby: Someone benefiting from nepotism, usually a child of a famous person 1
OG: “original gangster,” slang for the original version of something, usually superior to its successors 1
Ohio: Loser 1
OP: “Overpowered.” Usually when a video game player has so much advantage that it becomes unfair 1
Opp: Someone you don’t like 1
Parasocial: A one-sided relationship where one party feels like they deeply know the other, going so far as to consider themselves friends when they’re not 1, 2, 3
Photo dumps: A random collection of photos and videos “dumped” on social media all at once, usually on Instagram. See here. 1
Podium: Something really good 1
Pookie: Someone you love 1
Poppin’: Popular and happenin’ 1
Private Instagram account: Sometimes called a “priv,” “private,” “burner account,” “spam account,” or “finsta,” this type of Instagram is usually reserved for close friends and sh*tposts 1
Read: Making someone aware of their flaws 1
Scemo: Scene/emo music, which I discovered was a music genre upon being recommended it 1
Ships: A couple or pairing, usually fictional, that fans think should be in a relationship 1
Shipper: The fan who “ships” a couple 1
Sims: A popular video game that simulates real life 1
Sigma: good (also “alpha male”) 1
Situationship: An undefined relationship that drags on without clarity 1, 2, 3
Skibidi: According to AP, skibidi has “no inherent meaning.” 1
Spilling the Tea: Synonym for gossip session 1
Subreddits: Niche, online communities on Reddit 1
SUS: Short for suspicious 1
Swiftie: Taylor Swift fan 1
Touch grass: Said as encouragement to get off your computer/out of your house to take a mental break from the internet 1
Tweaking: Acting weird 1
User-generated content: Social media posts created by fans, rather than companies 1